Flexible organization and less stress probably make the best way to describe the preparations for a small wedding. A small event is one under 50, most usually counting friends and family. The atmosphere is more relaxed and nobody is that keen on the etiquette. Moreover, small wedding planning has the advantage of money savings that prove impossible with too large events.
Spend money on the things that really matter, such as good videography, a nice dress, good food and drink. Moreover, when the plans are kept simple, it is easier for those people close to you to help with the organization in much more efficient ways. There is less stress with small wedding planning because you don’t have so many things to do.